Dad and The Bee

I bet you already know which one won the fight.  Yesterday Dad had to respond to a call from Mother Nature while he was out and about.  It seems that a local bee found the inside of his upper right leg a perfect place to land.  Unfortunately for the bee and Dad, the bee was still resting when he pulled up his pants.

I have never seen such a reaction.  Dad did not come right home, but when he did, he asked if I would please remove the stinger.  Well, it looked like he had about 5 stingers, but one was more prominent that the others, so I girded up my loins and scraped across it with a credit card.  We had read that if you use tweezers, the stinger may break.

  What should have been a big red lump was actually a 3 inch circle with 15-20 blisters inside a 7 or 8 inch larger red circle.  It looked so bad.  I wanted to take him to the emergency room, but you all know your dad well enough to know that he was not about to go for just a little old bee sting.  

  He poured on the Lavender and several other oils, then sat in the tub.  I kept checking to make sure he was still breathing.  Even after prayers and he actually went to bed, I kept listening and touching him, so he would move and I could be sure he was okay.

  Today the smaller circle is still full of blisters that look like they are healing well, but the larger red circle is still there with considerable swelling, but does your dad complain, of course not.   It makes me cry sometimes when I see how much he endures.  I will be eternally grateful for him and the example he has set.  I can see how he lives with pain every waking minute, but he puts a smile on his face and goes about like he was 25 instead of 66.

  He is always saying that he would rather wear out instead of rust out.  It would truly be a death sentence to become a couch potato, but I am grateful each day he comes home, takes his long soak in the tub, says his prayers and crawls into bed.   We use to laugh when his parents went to bed at 7, but guess who is becoming his dad.  :o} It's 7:40 and Dad has been asleep for almost an hour.

  We always laugh when we come to visit and the time to leave approaches.  He looks at me and says, should we pull a mom and dad and leave at 4 or 5 in the morning.  DeRell and Marie would do that quite often.  We laughed a lot over that, but now that we are maturing, we understand better why they did that.

  I hope everyone is praying for good weather, bad weather would be the only thing that would stop us from coming.  Sister Stevens mentioned last night about a multiple car pile up somewhere up there, due to the weather.  I tried not to freak out.  The Justice family has 2 sons coming from Rexburg for Thanksgiving.

  We do need to check out phones while we are there and I would like to go to the Temple.

  We have our Stake Temple Trip on Dec 6, but if we go while we are there it would save us the 7 hours travel time to Snowflake.

  Well it is almost 8, bed time right LOL.  

  I like to crawl in about 10, but have learned 9 isn't so bad and being up and on the go by 4 insures that I will have uninterrupted time for scriptures and breakfast.

  Although every day isn't always great, we know that God has everything in hand and that we just need to trust Him and know that things will work out.

  We are very proud of each of you and thank Heavenly Father for the privilege of being your earthly parents.  We are grateful for the memories.

Love,

Mom

Successful Gardeners 1

Pictures of Succes

This week on the "Rez"

This week has been pretty crazy in the “busy” way.  Elder Olson was gone every day but one, and he was only here that day because we had potential senior couples come to check this mission out.

 That happens on occasion.  A couple will call and express interest and President Justice invites them to come and visit and see what they think.  Sometimes it works really well, and other times, both parties decide that it really isn’t a “good fit”   On one occasion I said, “I don’t like to have to clean up after a storm hits” which is how I feel when people aren’t happy and are unable to work things out in a good way and can’t wait to get out of Dodge.  I will let you fill in the blanks.

Elder Olson went to Monument Valley Saturday with Brother Nez.  They did a Demo on how to prep the soil and put the fence up.  They had a pretty good turn out and I think everyone felt a whole lot better about going home and prepping their own gardens and putting the fence up.  The new senior couple were especially happy to have the support from the “Old Pro”  Elder Olson laughed because he is used to having everything laid out just so.  Well, they had 2 extra fence posts which when laid out did not compute.  It took a while for him to recognize that he had 2 extra that he was trying to fit into the layout of the standard fence of 30 x 30. 

We try to explain that while we have been here longer than most, we still do not know everything, nor do we pretend to know.  I think it turned out well and lunch was served.

The young Elders had made an apt for one of their investigators to come into the History Center on Saturday afternoon, but neglected to ask if someone could be there to help.  The other senior elder asked them about someone being there and they said something like, Sister O is always around.  He suggested they ask me anyway, which they finally did.

I knew the sister who came in but could not place her.  She is actually a member, but had not done anything on her family tree.  We started with her of course and then added what she did know.  One name lead to another and pretty soon we had her back about 4 generations.  We found census records with her gr grandparents including their first names which she had not known before, but wanted to know.  We found 2 young men who died at 14 and 16.  We actually found their death certificates.  One had died from drowning, the other from tuberculosis, because of “traditions” of not speaking the names of those who pass on, they might not have ever had the opportunity to be identified and sealed to their parents if she had not come in to get started.

We also found the Soc Sec Death Index for her grandfather who died in Texas in 2000.  While scrolling through the other names, she found a grandmother, an aunt, and an uncle’s information.  I think we had about 20 names recorded and several documents printed out before we knew it.

She stayed for about 2 hours and took pedigree charts and family group sheets.  She is anxious to come back and continue doing research to find others.  What a blessing to have such great tech support at our finger tips.  I love it when it works.

Elder Olson got a load of firewood and took it to one of our favorites in Red Lake.  A family member got angry and broke every window and door in her home.  They still have one large window that has not been replaced.  The wood helps tremendously, but the blanket over the one window, can only do so much.  When you say your prayers, please remember all the little things you take for granted.

Love,

Sister Olson

3:00 A.M. Phone Call and Stake Conference

  At 3:00 in the morning on Oct 28, my phone rang.  I just happen to put the phone on the night stand  One of our young sisters was calling.  I answered the phone and spent 45 mins  listening.  She obviously was going through a horrible situation.  I have learned to listen more and talk less.  When she was ready to hang up she said she could breathe again and that she felt loved and not  alone.

  The next day, I called to see how the rest of the night had gone.  She knows God loves her and she is going to make it.  I am sure there will be difficult days ahead, but I pray that she will always feel like she can call and talk no matter what the time.

  Prayer is interesting that way also.  There is never any message like Press 1 if you want...or Press 2 if you want..etc,  No call waiting message, no silence when you need to hear what only God knows can help you through whatever you are facing.

  I have learned to trust God more, while serving out here.  I have learned to listen more for the still small voice.  I have learned to love the people we serve. to celebrate differences and not be so quick to decide what the problem is.  Sometimes things are much different than you first think they are.  We also have to be so careful when we listen.  One of my favorite songs has the words, "In the quiet heart is hidden, sorrow that the eye cannot see."  

  I think we are often guilty of judging by appearance only and not looking into the heart.  So many people carry such heavy loads.  I hope we cheer more and stop throwing so many rocks.  We are here to help and to love one another.  

I wasn't planning on writing all that, but I guess there is a reason.

We just finished what I call our "Fruit Season"  The Stake President orders Peaches, Pears, and Apples.  We just finished with the Apple Order.  It is fun to watch the sisters order and bottle their fruit.  They are doing a great job of it too.

We have lots going on all the time  The young Elders are meeting more people through the gardening initiative.  People love to talk about their gardens and that opens right up to the blessings of the Lord.

  We had Stake Conference this weekend.  President Justice is such an amazing Stake President.  He speaks with great power and insight.  There is no doubt that he loves the Lord and seeks His guiding spirit in how to direct the affairs of the Stake.  He is amazing.

  His comments last night centered around Obedience and Sacrifice.  He said we all know how to go without, but do we know how to sacrifice.

  He shared the sacrifice that Abraham was willing to make and the widow who feed the prophet and then prepared to die.  Her sacrifice blessed her life and sustained her until the situation changed.  Are we willing to make such a sacrifice as they did?  We feel so blessed to work with such great people, who have strengthened their understanding of the gospel and the principles that we came here to learn.

  We cannot always understand the WHY of things, but we can trust that God does and that he will never leave us nor forsake us.  

  He focused on the blessings of paying a full tithe and being Temple worthy.  He told the people of this Stake that if they also would be willing to sacrifice that they would never go without the necessities of life, but that they had to be committed.  It was such an amazing thing to be a witness of.

  We will have Fast Sunday next week and then on the 16th we will have the Phx Temple Dedication.  We are really looking forward to that.

  The time change is great because now I don't have to figure out two different time zones and what time my appts. are.  Is it our time or the other time????  Now when you go through the intersection it is still the same time.  LOL

  We love you.

Sister Olson